Archive for April, 2012

Monarch Miracle

April 29, 2012

Our dear friend Mrs. Jean, helped the kids catch a caterpillar so that they could watch him turn into a butterfly. First, he climbed around in his little cage, eating milkweed, the plant of choice for monarch caterpillars. Did you know that milkweed has a bitter taste? Eating a monarch is a mistake that a bird will only make once in his lifetime because of the taste of milkweed. Thus, the monarch is protected from his predator. After crawling around and feasting on milkweed, Stripey (as N and J  named  him) climbs to the highest point possible, affixes himself to this highest point and makes a J shape with his body. As he sits in his J his body transforms into a green jelly-like substance.

This somehow becomes a beautiful, perfect green chrysalis with tiny dots of gold lining one side.  There seems to be no scientific explanation for these gold dots (correct me if I’m wrong) I wonder if they are simply for the pleasure of the Creator. I wish I had a picture of this part!  There, the chrysalis hangs for approximately two weeks. Then, suddenly, his chrysalis turns jet black and is somehow transparent. Inside, you can see the markings of the monarch butterfly’s beautiful wings.  Once the color change occurs, you know that the butterfly will make his debut into the world sometime within the next 24 hours.

This is the tricky part. Who’s just going to stare at a black thing for 24 hours? On top of this, the exit will only take about 2 minutes, maximum! This is when you add a little prayer. We sat the cage on the center of the living room table. Then we all gathered together and asked God to turn our attention to Stripy when he was about to come out.

Awhile later, N screamed…Mom, he’s hatching!! I don’t know if ‘hatch’ is the proper scientific term but hatch he did! It was the most amazing and beautiful process.

At first, his wings were tiny, his body much larger. He hung on with his legs and attempted to flap his tiny wings. Then, like a  magic trick, before our very eyes, his wings began to grow! The liquid in his body chamber was being pumped into his wings!

We took him back over to Mrs. Jean’s house to be released.

Everyone got to hold him and tell him goodbye.

And then, we caught Spikey and did it all over again. He was a different species. We could tell he was going to hatch just before we went out of town for Christmas. So, we took him with us and he ended up hatching on Christmas day! Nothing like adding a little excitement to a family gathering with your own nature episode!

We have learned much through the lives of our little insect friends. Patience, gentleness, diligence to name a few. Most of all, we have learned more of a Creator who is in the business of doing miracles, both big and small!

When I grow up…

April 27, 2012

Since marrying J, I have always hoped that we would be one of those couples that looks more and more like one another as we ‘grow up’. I think of an 85 year old man and woman I used to watch dance when I would go to small town country dances with my Grandpa. She was always in the same freshly ironed cotton dress and he was wearing his overalls over a  white starched stiff shirt. They had seemingly shrunk with age and were both small, thin and somehow just went together. They matched. You could pick them out of a lineup as husband and wife, no doubt.  They would steal the show, spinning around that floor, loving the chance to be in one another’s  arms, yet again. They danced in tribute to a long life  well lived.

I hope that J and I too will one day be a cute old couple that has begun to even look like one another after the many  years spent in each others company. I hope that if we were in a lineup, anyone could easily pick us out as husband and wife for no other reason than we just ‘go together’.  Someone once said that in marriage, joys are doubled and burdens are halved. As this math equation repeats throughout our life together, I hope that we too will one day be spinning across the figurative dance floor together celebrating the joys and burdens of a life well lived.

At Christmas, I was at a party when a man walked into the room. He was dressed in a festive manner that caught my eye.  And, I immediately knew who his wife was. He walked across the room and took his place beside her, as she offered him some food. I had to smile. I also had to sneak an incognito picture so you too could appreciate this couple who has surely grown to look alike.

Here’s to long marriage…(and flashy Christmas outfits)

Nativity Costumes

April 25, 2012

For the past few years, I  have wanted my children to have nativity costumes to dress up in at Christmas. I had lofty plans to make them myself but it  never happened. This year, I used some gift money to purchase them online. I googled ‘nativity costumes’ and a few options came up. I ended up purchasing most of them from Oriental Trading but purchased few from another site, depending  on the cost of each costume. In the end, it was less expensive to buy the ready made costumes verses making them myself. We ended up with Mary, Joseph, three wise men, an angle and a Shepard. It cost about $100. My thinking is that compared to how much many parents spend on their children at Christmas each year, it is worth it to spend this much on costumes that will be the focal point of our preparation each year, reminding them why we celebrate.  Thankfully, the individuals who broke into our house just before Christmas and unwrapped our gifts weren’t keen on nativity costumes! I’m so grateful for this gift and I’m looking forward to using these for years to come!

At December’s family movie night, N and J dressed up with their friends while Baba told the Christmas story.

I love this picture of  our little Mary, Joseph and Angel praying together!

I look forward to seeing all the ways in which these costumes are used over the years!

J’s First Ballet Recital

April 23, 2012

J LOVED her first ballet recital. She was beautiful and so proud of her makeup and costume!

She had such fun giving her friends good luck gifts and waiting backstage with them for her turn to perform.

Afterwards, Baba gave her flowers.

N gave her one too and told her she was the most beautiful girl in the whole entire world.

Nane and Dede came to the show also!

I was one proud Mama that day.

Of course, I was proud of how our little ‘flower’ did on stage.  But, something happened that day that I was even more proud of. When the pink flowers mingled with the blue dew drops backstage, some 4 year old trash talk broke out. Flowers couldn’t talk to dew drops, they said. Jenna was a leader. She bridged the gap between the dew drops and the flowers. She went over to the girls in blue and comforted the one who was crying for her mommy. She told another that she was beautiful and asked if they could be friends. Her willingness to step out diffused growing dissension that had begun to take place.  Even though she looked beautiful in her makeup and sequins, her desire to promote peace was the most beautiful act of the day! Way to go Jenna, I’m proud of you sweet flower!

Istanbul Buddies

April 21, 2012

Thanks S and A for the super cute shirts!

The Nutcracker

April 19, 2012

Just before her own ballet recital, J went to the Nutcracker Ballet with some friends from her dance class. They loved dressing up and watching the show.  The performance was incredible and I wished I had gone previous years as well. It was so special to have a mother-daughter day!

The moms and their girls.

Sweet 4 year olds!

Early for church in December!

April 17, 2012

So cute!

For every one picture that looks like this:

There are at least 5 that look like this:

Who Does This?

April 15, 2012

Sure wouldn’t want her to wake up on the ‘wrong side of the stairs!’

Thanksgiving

April 13, 2012

We were at my parent’s lake house for Thanksgiving. Each year, for as long as I can remember, we celebrate Thanksgiving with our dear family friends. It is quite a crowd as our families continue to grow! One of  my sisters also brought some Asian friends which added a fun twist to our holiday. Someone was always playing this Chinese game.

We also drank lots of yummy loose leaf green tea all weekend. They won me over and I still drink this stuff every morning. SO good!

Adventuresome cousins also added a fun twist! I mean, who straps a video camera to their head and jet skis in NOVEMBER!

N and J had their own kind of fun. These kids play in the water at the lake, no matter what time of year it is.

A 6 year old boy’s version of mud play:

A 4  year old girl’s version of mud play:

Thanks to amazing aunts who actually boiled water and made a hot bubble bath for N outside, afterwards.

A memory he won’t soon forget!

The siblings:

The kids:

A super fun weekend!

Early For Church

April 11, 2012

The early for church posts are fewer and farther between. We have adjusted to the new church times and have even figured out how to run late some weeks!

 


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