Archive for November, 2009

Fear – Part 3

November 27, 2009

For the past two weeks, I have written about fearing God as a means to freedom from our own fears. Click here and here to catch up if you wish. For the final segment, I wanted to highlight specific scriptures that teach us what actions we need to take to fear God. I venture to say we all want to fear Him, but what about the HOW?

So, here are hands on practicals from scripture as to how we are to fear Him.

Deut. 6:24 . The LORD commanded us to obey all these decrees and to fear the LORD our God, so that we might always prosper and be kept alive, as is the case today. 

Sam. 12:24 But be sure to fear the LORD and serve him faithfully with all your heart; consider what great things he has done for you

PS 86:11 Teach me your way, O LORD, and I will walk in your truth; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear your name.

PS 111:10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding. 

Prov. 8:13 To fear the LORD is to hate evil.

From these scriptures we see a few action items:

obey all these decrees

serve Him faithfully with all your heart

consider what great things He has done for you

ask for an undivided heart

follow His precepts

hate evil

Breaking it down makes the practicals of how to fear God seem a little easier. In fact, we all know these things and we want to do them. But to me, the challenge is giving Him even the small stuff, the every day things that can derail me so quickly. 

 The fear verse that is most impactful to me is 2 Timothy 1:7 (New Living Translation)

7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.

Some translations end with the word self-control.  

This isn’t parenting advice- I can guarantee you I’m the last person you would want parenting advice from but when my two year old and four year old are frustrated about something and need help making the right choice, a friend taught me to  ask them to put their hands together and say ‘self control’. Giving them a positive action to take that replaces whatever action they want to do that they shouldn’t be doing really helps them choose obedience.

I mention this because I think we all are familiar with these scriptures and know how we should respond. So many times, we too need to just take a step back and put our hands together and say ‘self control’. Just a pause and a prayer of realignment can mean the difference in getting worked up about something or surrendering that fear to the Lord.

So, I end where I started 3 weeks ago with the thought:

“The more or our lives we entrust to God, the more radically we will see Him provide and protect.”

May we ALL entrust more of our lives to Him daily and then wait expectantly for His fingerprint on our lives.

“If we put our fear in God, we have no need to fear anything else.” - Oswald Chambers

Thankful.

November 26, 2009

This Thanksgiving, more so than any other in my life, I am overflowing with thankfulness. Overflowing with gratitude to the Lord for His goodness in our lives. 

This has been the worst year of our lives. One thing after another has left us discouraged, broken and in some seasons, full of doubt. But, we have seen God’s consistent faithfulness over the past year. Not in big neon sign ways but in small whispers to sometimes press on, sometimes keep trusting and other times just wait. 

He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3 

Our prayers of thanks and our offerings have begun to look different. 

When J first started his job as hospital chaplain a few months ago, it was with not much thankfulness that I accepted this as God’s provision over our lives. His hours are long, much of the time, he isn’t really with us even when he is here because he is so exhausted both emotionally and physically. 

Slowly, the very thing that I was so begrudging toward has been the thing that is changing our lives. 

I drive an hour to take the kids up to the hospital to meet J for a quick dinner while he is on call all night, hoping he won’t get paged while we eat. He’s late and we wait for him in the atrium. He had just been with a family as they took their 2 year old off life support and waited with their 4 year old until the child life specialist was able to come relieve him.

 Our tearful prayer before our meal that night was a little different than the ones before.

 When he is paged to a sick child’s room only to meet the father outside and find out that his mother has just died in the hospital across the street, J helps the father deliver this news to his son. He pours out prayers of strength over a father who is facing loss at every turn. 

I weep for these families, pray for them and begin to realize that not just J but our whole family is giving part of our lives for those who are hurting. When these things happen back to back throughout a night, and J arrives in his dress pants and pressed shirt in the middle of the night, no one in their grief is thinking that he might have just finished ministering to another family in an equally horrible situation. Nor do they think, ‘when does this guy sleep?’, or ‘does he have a family?’. Instead, they feel the presence of God in their deepest place of pain. 

When J walks a husband through the most horrific phone call of his life, I know that it is the Holy Spirit that speaks through him, offering comfort beyond our comprehension.  A mother in another state who gives birth to a child who is immediately life flighted here. The father who quickly makes the drive only to learn that there is no way their child will survive. He stands beside the bed of his infant and over his cell phone, gently gives a description to his wife of what is happening as they take their infant off life support. 

Again, I weep. Again, I am overwhelmed by how selfish I must sound as I bemoan the worst year of our lives.

J’s job is changing us from the inside out. This Thanksgiving isn’t going to pass me by without wholehearted time of worship and gratitude for all the Lord has given us. I can’t help but overflow with gratitude today for the Lord’s goodness in our lives. 

He has given us just enough.

 He is enough. 

My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalm 73:26

Racehorse Harley and his Youngest Jockey

November 25, 2009

Our Cat Named Ella

November 24, 2009

When I picked up N at school a couple of weeks ago, the first thing he said was, “I told my teacher we have a cat named Ella.” We in fact, do not have a cat named Ella. His voice was matter of fact but at the same time a little remorseful. He curiously awaited my response. I tried to probe a little to figure out why he had said this and the best I could come up with was he just wished he had a cat. That’s fair. So, I gave him the speech about truthful words, who the father of lies is, the character of his heavenly father etc.  Of course, I also threw in how much I dislike cats so that he didn’t develop a false hope of ever getting one. I felt sure that was the end of Ella.

This week, I went to his very cute and creative school Thanksgiving party. I’m so sorry I didn’t have my camera to take pictures of these kids in their Indian feathered hats with balloons on their chairs and bright place mats all sitting in a row eating their Thanksgiving dinner of maccaroni, chicken nuggets, fruit salad and cookies. It wasn’t until N put his plate in the trash that I was able to fully appreciate his place mat. Listed was each member of our family, the things for which he was most thankful. And yes, there on the laminated place mat was our cat named Ella.

 

Weekend with Nane and Dede

November 23, 2009

A weekend with Nane and Dede always means lots of action and fun This one was no different, filled with horse rides, climbing in the hay, riding 4 wheelers, cracking pecans and just plain getting dirty. I think the weekend favorite was 4 wheeler riding, even little J went for two hours!

Fear – Part 2

November 20, 2009

This post is a continuation of last Friday’s post. If you haven’t read it and want to start from the beginning, click here.

What does it mean to fear God? I mean, how can we fear a God who is defined by love? To me, it would be easier to fear the God whose wrath we see displayed in the Old Testament. This brings me to a life situation that shed much insight on our need to fear God.

Several years ago, someone I knew died unexpectedly while in his 30′s. Without giving many details, I had known this man to live a double life. He was a respected deacon, Sunday School teacher and church leader. He was also extremely dishonest in his career during the week, despised by most, known by all. The news of his death really sent my reeling. The thought would creep into my head, “Did God do this to punish him?” As soon as I thought it, I would immediately be horrified by my own thought. “It isn’t my place to judge him.” and then “But he’s dead.” and then “Who am I to wonder why?” Back and forth I went, never resolving this issue until just  a couple of weeks ago when a good friends Scott and Abby pointed me to 3 instances in the New Testament of God still being a God of wrath.

The first one  Scott pointed out is Luke 13 when the tower of Siloam just fell and killed 18 people and the onlookers were struggling with the same question I had. They went to Jesus and asked him for an answer to why those particular 18 had died.

Jesus’s answer: 4Or those eighteen who died when the tower in Siloam fell on them—do you think they were more guilty than all the others living in Jerusalem? 5I tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will all perish.”

The truth is, regardless of the fate of my aquaintence, I myself deserve death.

Acts 12 -Herod’s last speaking engagement.

21On the appointed day Herod, wearing his royal robes, sat on his throne and delivered a public address to the people. 22They shouted, “This is the voice of a god, not of a man.” 23Immediately, because Herod did not give praise to God, an angel of the Lord struck him down, and he was eaten by worms and died. 

Herod stole the praise of the Lord and gave his life for this momentary gain.  

In Acts 5 Ananias and Saphira held back a portion of their tithe and consequentially both fell over dead. 

They stole what God had claimed for himself.

I find it interesting that two of these three examples are those who took away from God what was rightfully his. In one instance His praise and in the other His offerings.  

The good news for us is that even though God still may still operated under this premise occasionally, he is also a God of Love, Mercy, Justice, Forgiveness, and Patience. I only bring up the other because I think our cultural Christianity sometimes overlooks this aspect of fearing the Lord. In order to have a healthy view of fearing him we must combine both the God of justice and God the merciful, compassionate forgiver.

So, this week be sobered by the God of Justice and next week we will rejoice together as we look how to truly fear God the merciful, compassionate forgiver!

Factory Girl

November 19, 2009

That is precisely what N started calling me after watching me sew all day today, making curtains for a friend. Factory girl. I was thinking he would want to do some type of cute Thanksgiving craft with these funky feathers we have. No. He wanted to sew like mom. First he made a necklace. Then, he sewed lots of different threads onto a piece of paper. After a mistake, it became a hat. After he was tired of wearing it, it became my factory girl hat. Yeah, I got to wear the had while I sewed and was simultaneously called factory girl by a four-year old.

He really did well with the sewing. This is a fun thing to do to practice fine motor skills and repetition. I just had to let him do his own thing- originally, he was supposed to follow the dots I made to trace the letter N. As you can see, that didn’t happen. But hey, I’d much rather have a factory girl hat anyway.

Have fun creating your own sewing project!

J Hosting Her First Tea Party

November 18, 2009

Wii Babies

November 17, 2009

Ok. I couldn’t  think of anything funny to write today. I was going to write about how everyone in America seems to be into going green these days except the phone company who deposits a phone book on our front porch every other week.  I’ll spare you this post since  it is midnight, some dear friends just left and I’m not so much a night person. Instead, I’ll send you to an interesting post about a new Wii toy that is not scheduled to launch in the US. Click here to read about Wii Babies and have a great day!

Jack’s Birthday Party

November 16, 2009

Last weekend, Baba took N and J to a good friend’s birthday party while I was at home, not feeling well. Jack was turning 2 and he had a train party at the park adjacent to the zoo. Everyone got train hats and whistles which are still staple accessories around our house. The party was great fun. I mainly wanted to post about the party to show off my friend Leigh Ann’s great photography skills. Take a look.

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N holding hands with the birthday boy, just after their train ride.

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J joining in on the fun.

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A 4 year old's dream world.

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The crew.

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J with her sweet friend Ava.


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