Archive for August, 2009

A Reason to Celebrate

August 31, 2009

We’ve been celebrating around here this week. There is only one reason why we would…..

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Go to the really cool Noah’s Ark splash park

 

There’s only one reason why we would ……

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Go ice skating

And

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Eat ice cream

 

There’s only one reason why we would…

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Play at the mall

And

Eat out twice in one week. Yeah. We’re getting crazy around here

 

There’s only one reason why we would…

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Go on a special trip to the zoo just the kids and Baba.

Wait. This isn’t a real picture. I had to draw one since I wasn’t there to follow everyone around with the camera.

 

There’s only one reason why we would…

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Play backyard ball on a Friday afternoon

 

Why?

BABA GOT A JOB!!!!!

And after 4 months of looking, that’s a reason to celebrate!

Life Lesson from a Swim Race, of all Things!

August 28, 2009

This week marks the two year anniversary of competing in a swim race from Europe to Asia through the Dardanelles Strait. The distance across the straight is 3,850 meters (a little over 2 miles). There is a cutoff time of 1 and a half hours meaning that if you aren’t finished by then, they will pick you up in a boat and bring you to shore. There is one safety boat for every 3 swimmers and only 150 people are allowed to enter .The current is somewhat tricky as it flows in both directions and is as fast as 2 knots at some points. Because of this, swimmers must swim in a ‘V’ across the straight instead of in a straight line. 

It is a historical place for several reasons. It is the sight of the ancient Greek mythology story of Hero and Leander. They were in love with each other but one lived on one side of the straight and the other lived on the other side. Each night Leander swam across the straight to meet his love, Leander. One night during a terrible storm, Leander drowned in his attempt to swim across. Hero threw herself in the water in despair.

This story has inspired several love poems, one by Lord Byron. After writing the poem, he swam the straight himself in 1810.

In 5 BC it is thought Persian King Xerxes built a pontoon bridge across this point in his expedition against the Greeks. It is after this expedition that he most likely returned to Persia and married Queen Ester. 

Like anything in Central Asia, I had to gather lots of paperwork in order to enter the race. I had  to get a “Health Report” from the government health clinic. Were they concerned that I gave birth 3 months ago? Did they even say the traditional “May you have a long life” when I sneezed? NO! I stood in lines at four different windows to have different people fill out different parts of a form, they stapled on a passport picture and stamped the form in six different places. Very important places, I’m sure. None of which had anything to do with my health. I was ready to race. 

As He does with any risk we are willing to take, the Lord used this experience to teach me about more about His heart and character as our Father, Shepard and Guide. Let me just go ahead and confess. I REALLY wanted to swim in the race but I was also REALLY scared. When I look back, I realize all my fears were rooted in distrust. I mean, this is a country where policemen stop the motorcyclists who are wearing helmets to reward them with candy instead of stopping the ones without helmets to give them tickets. Could I really trust these people to save my life should I have a problem out there? 

The night before, a good friend (Matt S.) called from the states to encourage me. He shared the message version of Psalms 119:25 

“Barricade the road that goes Nowhere;
      grace me with your clear revelation.
   I choose the true road to Somewhere,
      I post your road signs at every curve and corner.
   I grasp and cling to whatever you tell me;
      God, don’t let me down!
   I’ll run the course you lay out for me
      if you’ll just show me how.” 

This became my prayer of comfort for the next day. And my prayer of comfort when I got to the race and immediately burst into tears when I saw how competitive everyone was compared to my top heavy, just gave birth 3 months ago, out of shape self. 

There was definitely some cultural flair-Of course, the race started late. There was no official horn or gun to signal the start, people just started jumping in. The ‘security boats’ weren’t exactly the safest drivers. Instead of lining the way to show the swimmers where to swim, they were spread out everywhere, even weaving in and out between swimmers! 

My distrust for those boats who were supposed to line the course and show us the way increased. I began to pray Psalms 119:25 as I swam. ‘Lord, post your road signs at every curve and corner.’ ‘Don’t let me down.’ ‘I’ll run the course you lay out for me if you’ll just show me how.’  

Suddenly, out of nowhere, a boat came up beside me. It seemed to be staying right beside me. I no longer had to lift my head every few strokes to mark my bearings because the boat was guiding the way, just for me. Amazing! As I swam, I knew that God had sent this boat for me, an answer to the cry of my heart, His road signs at every curve and corner! I allowed the boat to be my guide for the majority of the 50 minutes it took me to swim the straight. Just when I could see the finish line, the boat seemed to veer off course. It looked like he was going AWAY from the finish. ‘Those idiots’, I thought. ‘He probably saw a fellow fisherman over that way and decided to go tell him ‘hi’ in the middle of my race!’ 

I decided to leave the boat that had faithfully guided me across and head straight for the finish line. The driver seemed to be yelling something at me but I didn’t have time to stop to hear what he was saying. 

The next thing I knew, I looked up to find myself several hundred yards past the finish line. I had been swept in the 2 knot current that ran right alongside the shore line. Now, the only way to even finish the race was to swim against this current, back to the finish. It was almost impossible. I had to fight with every ounce of strength left in me to get back to the finish! I was swimming but not advancing at all! I thought I would never make it and wanted to quit so badly but knew I couldn’t so close to the finish!

The boat driver had been leading me directly into the current so that it would rush me to the finish line. He was higher up and could see the currents from above. He had likely fished those waters his entire life and knew every inch of them. He genuinely wanted my success. 

Did I listen? Did I trust him? Do I choose the road that goes Somewhere? Am I prideful? Do I try to control situations I should leave in God’s hands? Do I need more patience? Am I sometimes blinded to God’s provision, even when it stares me in the face? Ouch. 

I didn’t win the race that day, but I learned a spiritual truth that will stay with me forever. God longs for us to run the course He has laid out for us. He longs to show us how.

Racers wating in line to board the boat that took us to the race start on the other side.

Racers wating in line to board the boat that took us to the race start on the other side.

I ended up placing 3rd but didn't hear my name called/butchered so I took a picture later.

I ended up placing 3rd in my age group but didn't hear my name called/butchered so I took a picture later.

Awards Ceremony

Awards Ceremony

Picture with the Govener

Picture with the Governor

Cutie #1

Cutie #1

Cuties #2 and 3 with our house cleaner who came to help with the kids.

Cuties #2 and 3 with our house cleaner who came to help with the kids.

Race Day Poem

race day.

oh Lord let this race bring you glory.

let me swim for you

as worship

in thanks

for your generosity

in creating me in a way that i can

have the privilege of honoring you

through sports.

Welcome Annie Blogs Readers!

August 27, 2009

If you are coming over from Annie Blogs today www.annieblogs.com, I just wanted to say WELCOME! I’m new to the blog world and Annie Blogs is the first blog I have ever followed of someone I didn’t know personally. She’s amazing- and her writing has truly added depth to my life. If you are new, please leave a comment with your own blog address. I’d love the honor of getting to know you too!

Ephesians 6 Craft

August 27, 2009

N went through a phase where he began to struggle with fear at night when he was going to bed. We would pray for him and comfort him but he remained unsure. One afternoon, we made armor out of a cardboard box, based on the verses in Ephesians 6. This helped him visualize the presence of the Lord around him as he tried to sleep and we have since used this to help him comprehend turning his fears over to Christ as a 4 year old.

Ephesians 6:13-19 “13Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. 14Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, 15and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. 16In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. 18And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints.

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5 Minutes Before the Babysitter Arrives

August 26, 2009
Lipstick (marker) and Shampoo (an impromptu bath)

Lipstick (marker) and Shampoo (an impromptu bath)

These Scissors Only Cut Paper

August 25, 2009

That’s what I tell my kids when I give them scissors. That is what I have said hundreds of times. “Here you go kids but, remember, these scissors only cut paper.” 

So, J has heard it a hundred times too. He was watching the kids while they were busy cutting. They managed to cut something other than the paper (hair, clothes… neither of us can remember what it was).

When I got back I accusingly asked, “Why did you let them cut something other than paper?”

J’s answer? “I thought these scissors only cut paper!”

J is sticking to his story on this one. He claims that there really are childproof scissors that only cut paper. He even has friends who  he paid to will agree with him. He also claims that he just might have to start his own blog to refute mine. I wouldn’t want to report anything false so I googled ‘kid proof scissors’ to see if I could find any scissors that truly only cut paper. 

After much research, I finally found  Westcott Kid Proof Scissors
“Nylon scissors cuts paper only. Does not conduct electricity or cut fingers, hair or fabric. 5″ Blunt.”

So, J wins this one. There are scissors out there that only cut paper. Just not ours.

Everyone’s Invited

August 24, 2009

That’s right. You’re all invited to come play on our new play set. This was a combined birthday gift from Nane and Dede. I think it was more of a gift for me than the kids since they play on it so often. When N said the prayer last Friday at the church family movie night in front of 50+ people, he managed to  slide in this commercial, “And God, let all the kids know we have a new play set and they can all come play on our play set.” So, come on over. Thanks to Baba and Dede for the hours of work they put into assembling this thing. It came in 4  boxes and not one piece of wood was connected to another. That’s a lot of screws. And, a lot of time. Hey, at least if you’re unemployeed you have time to put together your kid’s play set. They should have gotten paid, though. They would get up at 5:30 to beat the heat and work all day. We better not move anytime soon.

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Volunteer for Suffering

August 21, 2009

There are millions of self-help books out there. Hundreds of thousands of books about how to know God more, deepen your relationship with Him, know His will, train up Christ honoring children….and the list goes on. Seldom do these books have a chapter on how to make your child suffer so that he can know redemption, how to strip away everything that is comfortable so that you truly rely only on Christ, or how to leap into a season of despair so that Christ can show you Hope.  Take a look at our family.

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This was in March. We had just moved into our new home. J was half way through his first semester of law school. We were finally in our own home, making new friends and beginning to develop roots. We had a plan. We were ready to save the world by  helping women who had been sold into sexual slavery throughout the world find freedom through J’s law degree. We had dreamed about this future just as we had also dreamed about finally having our own home and the garden we would plant together. It was with  excitement that we tilled the soil and planted our first seeds. I have to admit that as we planted them, I began to have thoughts of doubt. Will these seeds  amount to anything? I don’t think anything will grow in this hard, clay-like soil. We don’t really know what we’re doing. I immediately thought to myself, isn’t this typical of our journey with Christ as well. Do we trust Him for the outcome we are dreaming of or are we stuck in unbelief that our dreams won’t come to pass?

As I watered our garden daily over the next months, spent hours weeding it and even re-planted everything after a major flood, I kept believing for the day that it would bear luscious fruits and vegetables that we would eat at our table . During these same months, J quit school.  We thought it would only take a week to find a job so we should have a week together as a family first.  That was 19 weeks ago. Recently, a friend who is an avid gardener pronounced our garden ‘dead’. “Quit wasting your water,” he said. Take a look at today’s garden.

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Par for the course. Just as messy, tangled, confusing, and hopeless as our life has seemed. I was right all along, this garden wasn’t to bear fruit. We planted too late and the temperatures rose too quickly so that the plants that did actually come up couldn’t seed.  Around the same time that our garden was pronounced dead, our dear friends Larry and Debbie gave us a volunteer Crape Myrtle. I had never heard the term ‘volunteer’  before, used for a tree that seeds and grows beneath another, volunteering life without any outside help. Hundreds of seeds fall from a tree but only seldom does one actually bear fruit. This sounded good. We are a family who is willing to volunteer. Against all odds, we want what God has for us. Take a look at our volunteer.

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Does it look dead to you? It sure looks dead to me. Par for the course. Things just keep getting worse around here. Except for one thing. I didn’t show you the bottom of the tree.

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There, just above the grass is the beginning of LIFE. The beginning of a true volunteer. Against all odds, in an adverse, less than perfect environment (did I mention that at one point the kid I was babysitting uprooted this entire tree and was carrying it around the yard?), when it would have been easier to die, the volunteer is bringing life and hopefully someday color into our yard.

Do we do the same? We volunteer to follow Christ. But, there is no clause anywhere that says once you do so, your life will be happy, prosperous and perfect. So many times we think following God’s will brings the best circumstances into our lives. We thought so when we turned down that first job offer 10 weeks ago.  A better offer was surely just around the corner. Instead, we have learned the joys of patience and the depths of God’s love for us as we live literally day to day. The discipline of waiting on the Lord. Waiting for provision. Waiting for guidance as to how to spend each day. Waiting for prayers to be answered. Lessons I thought I’d be learning when we took the first happy garden picture months ago? No. But, each day, I learn more of God’s heart and how great His love for us truly is. Now, that’s something I’d volunteer for.

A friend shared Habakkuk 2:3  with us this week: “This vision is for a future time. It describes the end, and it will be fulfilled.   If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place. It will not be delayed.”

Cucumber Races

August 20, 2009

Buy a cucumber for each member of the family. Little ones love to pick their own out of the produce section of the store. Float them in a pot of water to determine which side will be ‘up’. Let each family member carve out a canoe and paint their canoe with their own signature design. Make sure the cucumbers are room temperature, otherwise they will sweat and the tempera paint won’t stick. Make flags out of toothpicks and paper, glue on other decorations or simply go green.

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Now, it’s time for the real fun to begin. Take your family fleet to a nearby river and prepare for the race to begin. Increase the anticipation by first taking lots of pictures while frying your retinas as you attempt to look into the extremely bright sun.

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Launch with style.

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Wave to the cucumbers and cheer them on as they float away- 30 seconds.

Comfort two screaming kids who want their cucumbers back- 5 minutes.

Talk about the cucumber boats and wanting them back every time you drive over that blasted bridge on the way home from anywhere- 2 weeks.

The most important detail of family cucumber races: do them in a place where cucumber retrieval is also an  option!

August 19, 2009

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